Art collective Les Infemmes from Nice recently created a fanzine called L'antisèche du clito ("the cheat sheet of the clit"), including pretty sweet designs like the Dracula Clit, the Punk Clit, and the Christmas Clit.
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The vibrating on my clit is nice with the rabbit ears, especially because I have a clit ring.
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Focus on the clit As you have probably heard, for people with vulvas, orgasms are often all about the clit.
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All clit with no penetration gets old and sort of lacking, but all penetration with no clit is also really bad.
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It kept the bulky clit vacuum part at a good enough distance from my clit that it didn't feel as intense as the others.
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If you have a clitoris, Sex With Emily has an episode called "The Clit Notes" that covers all the different ways you can touch your clit.
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I ended up moving the Womanizer around, and positioning it farther away from my clit while upping the vibration setting, so it was still stimulating my clit but from more of a distance.
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The super-simple clit-stimulator has an "easy twist base operation for relaxed or half-awake solo play" and a "tapered tip to respect your clit and mind your vagina," so it's foolproof.
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My clit is thumping with its own heartbeat, demanding more.
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The clit did not have a Wiki page back then.
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Wordlessly, Neil watched me rub my clit in slow circles.
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This is where the Clit List manager Ella comes in.
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Their choreography involves a fair bit of clit play. Instructional.
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Vicky: I got my clit pierced on my lunch break.
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Once she's sufficiently aroused, you can try touching the clit directly.
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The repetitive motion applies constant friction and pressure to the clit.
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His hand slipped between them, his fingers unerringly finding her clit.
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This is true of anyone who has ever owned a clit.
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Suction-Based Toys: Suction-based toys have been around for awhile, often labeled as "clit pumps" or "pussy pumps" and marketed towards a fetish crowd looking to enlarge and increase sensitivity in the clit and vulva.
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Most commonly, though, people get off from a clit/g-spot combination.
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In that case, try the DJ move right above their clit instead.
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In the entire museum, there wasn't a single representation of the clit.
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Mainly because I've been nearer my clit for longer than anyone else.
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That's true for plenty of other women, too—it's clit or bust.
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With her mouth lavishing Chrisanne's clit, Iris stroked her entrance with light fingers.
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That's right, you can actually reach the back of the clit through anal.
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My fingertips circled my clit, and a shaky breath stuttered across my lips.
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Unlike the human clit, however, dolphins' are positioned in a slightly different spot.
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The point is, the clit is where the nerves are, not the vagina.
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She stimulated my clit and covered every inch of my body with hers.
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Maybe, I thought, these little clit punches would feel better than tentacle tickles?
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Begin rubbing their clit with your finger and insert a finger or two.
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Your clit is like a non-player character (NPC) in a video game.
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What's best about the human tongue is that it's the right amount of pressure and softness and it tends to not focus directly on the clit but rather, spaces near the clit that still stimulate it but not as intensely.
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How can the Clit List know what its users will and won't find offensive?
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The way you jumped around on my knee…and rubbed your clit on me.
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I cried out, and he rubbed my clit and slapped my cunt once more.
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Within the first few seconds of it touching my clit, something very surprising happened.
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Dr. Castellanos says it may have to do with how someone touches a person's clit.
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Much of the clit is actually internal, and the size varies from person to person.
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"If you're looking at the market, clit stimulation is what's most sought after," he says.
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Besides, deep fingering without clit-work is like nachos without toppings—passable, but never great.
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Explaining to a boy that he can't penetrate your clit, him trying anyway, no foreplay.
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That could mean touching your clit, or switching your penis to your hand to reach orgasm.
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For one thing, the clit is huge; it's not just a little nubbin under the hood.
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But rubbing your clit against someone else's (or against their thigh) can feel pretty damn good.
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While inside me, he rubbed my clit with his finger, and it worked out well. 18.
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Letty felt like she had two hearts — one in her chest and one in her clit.
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It was like I was fingering my throat, and my uvula was like a giant clit.
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Attached to the top of the ring is a vibrating bullet to hit a partner's clit.
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If you (or your partner) haven't been focusing on your clit, it's time to change that.
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I wasn't like fingering, but I would touch my clit, and I knew it felt good.
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Together, you can work on some ways to free — or access — the clit, because you deserve it.
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But adding a wand to my clit while I was getting eaten out or having penetrative sex?
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Rabbit vibrators, wands, clit vibes, finger vibes, glass dildos, strap-ons — my bedside drawer is bursting with them.
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You can then put your mouth right in the middle, pressing down against her clit through her scrotum.
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"Oh, God…" Dean drew his fingers out, then swiped the pads fast over my clit like I loved.
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"Your clit, as well as the other aroused parts, will swell, making it much more noticeable," she says.
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Seeing so many rave reviews, though, has part of me wondering if maybe my clit is the issue?
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Practitioners claim that the actual injecting of blood into your clit is virtually painless because of anaesthetic cream.
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Plus, you have access to your clit to add a little something extra for yourself with your hands.
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During filming, some people would get flustered by saying "clit," a very mundane part of the female anatomy.
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Bouncing on my knees, I thrust my hand between my legs to finger my clit as he penetrated me.
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Some artists have actually created 3-D printed models of the clit (because, art), and they're actually pretty chic.
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One partner kneels, leaning back against the other, who is fingering them and/or stimulating their clit from behind.
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Like I said, if you're goal is to get your partner to orgasm ASAP, focus on licking the clit.
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I wanted it to be water-resistant, have something for my clit, and [be] in a reasonable price range.
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" In a recent audition, I had to say, "He thinks he has the authority of slapping my new clit.
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I also attended Clit Club, making a pair of conjoined chairs for the set of Lesbapalooza at Dixon Place.
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Have them use a vibrator on their clit and watch their orgasmic expression when the toy brings them to climax.
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Oral sex simulators are round-ish toys with holes at the end to send air and suction to the clit.
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" "The reason I wanted something like the Clit List so much is because it gives women back their control sexually.
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If you want to stimulate your clit, gently stroke the top, where your glans clitoris is, in a circular motion.
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The line includes things like bondage sets, vibrating cock rings, rabbit vibrators, vibrating butt plugs, clit stims, and anal beads.
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Have your partner hold the handle of their electric toothbrush against your clit (just make sure to wash after use!).
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DJ. A good way to get your partner turned on and wet is to use your fingers on their clit.
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They do this for the camera's sake, since it's hot to see the action of the tongue hitting the clit.
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So I start licking her butthole while rubbing her clit, and she's breathing heavy, and I think getting into it.
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For years, this was how female sexual dysfunction was treated: Get her to like vaginal sex because the clit is immature.
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The Clit List is a new, online database of feminist porn aimed at helping women reclaim their bodies after sexual assault.
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Read on to learn the best masturbation techniques that will help you unlock the so-called "magical" powers of your clit.
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Try experimenting with different angles until you hit the sweet spot, and incorporate nipple or clit play for added pleasure. Kneeling
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" In this case, Moon recommends "small licks about an inch down from the frenulum, on the ventral [under] side of her clit.
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Then the participants were asked to drop as many taboo words as possible—from "cunt" to "crackhead" to "clit"—in a minute.
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It's the sex toy industry venturing past pure utility into art for art's sake, and it feels great humming against your clit.
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Your new lover might hate penetration or might not be able to get off when there's too much pressure on their clit.
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I've been calling these type of toys "clit suckers", but I don't know whether any of them are actually doing any sucking.
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His nose brushed my clit, and my back arched so sharply he dug his fingers into my thighs to keep me steady.
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I use this toy on me and my boyfriend all over, from massaging behind the ears to his perineum to my clit.
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Maybe everyone needs to get their heads out of the gutter — just because a thing vibrates doesn't mean it's for your clit, right?
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"For me, nipple play—okay, pain—during sex is a turn-on on the level of a vibrator against my clit," she said.
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That's been the case for Mara: "I still love it when people suck on my clit/dick and that's super hot!" she says.
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Add Oral Your partner can lick your clit while simultaneously giving you G-spot stimulation with either their fingers or a sex toy.
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Some of what we've seen feels like anything you'd already know, if you've dated or shagged anyone committed to really working the clit.
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His eyes were unfocused as he slammed into her, his slippery fingers rubbing her clit so hard she couldn't make sense of anything.
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When viewers gazed through the perspective of the clit, phallocentric hubris in museum exhibitions was filtered out, allowing the viewer to see clearly.
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" It was Judge Kavanaugh's choice to join the all-male Yale secret society Truth and Courage, also referred to as "Tit and Clit.
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" She adds, "Depending on what she likes done with her testes, you can either leave them alongside her clit, or tickle or stroke them.
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" Several years before Kavanaugh was initiated into TNC, Sherry said, the people on campus called the group by an "alternate nickname": "Tit and Clit.
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Dr. Britton says the easiest way to understand what the clit looks like on the inside is to look at a 3-D model.
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However you see oral, use your tongue to tease your partner's clit or penis head, and for more fun, get your hands involved, too.
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You're gonna want to diddle that P-spot just like you would a nice wet clit, and you'll really start to feel something amazing.
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Rather, I was better able to position the clit-sucking part thanks to the feature that was supposed to be stimulating my inner parts.
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It made a lot of sense, and I wondered if I'd ever had a clit boner that was, in fact, just a pee stiffy.
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Unlike ear or clit piercings, the modification hasn't held a sustained high or low popularity, but has instead ebbed and flowed through the ages.
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Deck The... Halls Whether you mean nipple or clit clamps or a cock cage, add some sexy decor to you or your partner's body.
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Snake bite kits and clit pumps have long been available to anyone looking to explore the thrill of a vacuum sensation on their tender bits.
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"Knowing that [the clit and glans] share the same origin and aren't entirely dissimilar from each other was quite freeing to me," says Matty Lynn.
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She loved how Chrisanne's face twisted, her look becoming desperate with each thrust of Iris' fingers and every flick of her tongue on her clit.
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After all, there are plenty of ways to make sure both you and your partner have mind-blowing sex that don't require touching anyone's clit.
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One partner is pressed against the wall (or the back of the couch), and the other is behind them fingering and/or stimulating their clit.
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Once your hands are inside of your partner, you don't need to be actually fingering them or rubbing their clit for the entire sexual experience.
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Peering into it, I saw a bright green light shining back at me that looked like it was going to scan my clit for fingerprints.
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Putting the head directly onto your clit, you can play with water pressure levels and spray settings to find which sensation works best for you.
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This waterproof cock ring vibrates on the shaft of the penis, stimulating a longer durational erection (you're welcome) while also vibrating against a partner's clit.
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But lately I've been wondering how he manages to be so horny every morning, while I feel like a schlub with a reliably limp clit.
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These oils happened to be applied on and around the clit in a vigorous manner, which likely induced a highly restorative effect for the woman.
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Two years ago, I was finally having sex the way I'd always wanted—with a big-ass 6,000 RPM Magic Wand vibrating on my clit.
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"I don't think people are going to be like, 'Oh no, they're just rubbing her clit underneath her skirt at the park, that's fine,'" she says.
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But little by little, after tales of tequila body shots, whipped cream "around the worlds," and nipple/ass/clit tattoos — the doubts began to creep in.
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The history of the clit stretches all the way back to the days of Ancient Greece when female orgasm was encouraged by doctors for better fertility.
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The big spoon can kiss their neck, play with their nipples, and rub their clit (or finger them, or give them a hand job) from behind.
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This clit is currently being exhibited at the Fab Lab in the Cité des Sciences et de l'Industrie in Paris—the biggest science museum in Europe.
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I pee-sand-play with her clit for a minute; she remounts and we continue fucking, with the occasional pause when drum-circle hippies venture too close.
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This sturdy leather harness sits lower on the hips, allowing for an attached dildo to rub against the clit for those using this on partners with vaginas.
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By having one partner on her knees, the receiving partner can grab the giving partner's face, grab her hair, and pull her mouth onto her own clit.
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His tongue dragged up the length of my lips, fingers following the trail, pushing into me at the same time he sucked my clit into his mouth.
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For the most part, it's best to start with some foreplay before jumping into tongue-to-clit action so that your partner is turned on and relaxed.
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Instead, try rubbing the clit like a DJ. Take two to three fingers and make them nice and flat like a DJ would while spinning a record.
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Try this: With your tongue on their clit, place one hand on their stomach to get their attention, and then raise your head slightly to lock eyes.
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While pleasuring your partner's clit with your tongue, you can keep one hand on their thigh or stomach for comfort, and use your other hand for penetration.
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Oliver sealed his mouth to me, using the rigid tip of his tongue to nudge my clit over and over and over until I was panting for breath.
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In addition to all these internal parts, there's also an external structure that could be in the way of the glans clit, the clitoral hood, Dr. Britton says.
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The point is that if you're curious or even confused, you shouldn't be afraid to get up in there and figure out what's going on — it's worth clit.
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Being able to hold the toy in the palm of my hand made it easier to grip than a lot of the other external clit vibrators I own.
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It's important to remember that the clit and glans (the head of the penis) are homologous, meaning they are structurally similar and made up of the same embryonic cells.
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The former member said he hadn't heard of the "Tit and Clit" nickname in his time there, either, and that the group didn't have get-togethers with women's societies.
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"Our culture views sex as primarily penetration-focused, or focused directly on the clit, and that's not necessarily the entirety of what has pleasurable sensations for genitals," she cautions.
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The top partner can also lean over to play with the giving partner's clit or finger them, and this position also works as a great segue into 69-ing.
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Plus, depending on how much access your partner's harness gives you, you can manually stimulate their clit, use a toy or vibrator, or penetrate them while you blow them.
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After removing the actual razor head, you or your partner can hold the razor handle (not the part where the blade was) against your clit as a makeshift vibrator.
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Butterflies and other animals are far from rare in the sex tech industry: feather boa-ed rubber ducks; pink, ball-balancing dolphins; clit-tapping turtles; horse penis dildos abound.
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You might, for example, run your favorite bullet vibe over your nipples during foreplay, then turn it to its highest setting and hold it against your clit during sex.
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I ask Amara what she'd say to someone who makes the obvious criticism that the Clit List is promoting an industry that might be considered unethical—or inherently anti-feminist.
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"Often, a cock ring has a sleeve at the top, which can have a bullet vibrator or something like that, and could be vibrating on someone's clit," Dr. Britton says.
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Clit vibrators, G-spot vibrators, wand massagers, bullet vibes, rabbit vibes, a glass dildo, and an oral sex simulator are all neatly tucked away in a drawer beside my bed.
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Turning around while face-sitting can offer new angles to change up sensations on the clit and G-spot, not to mention a great view of the top partner's butt.
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While rubbing your partner's clit, try taking your other hand out of their vagina and reaching up to caress their breasts or pinch their nipples (depending on what they're into).
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If you're concerned about your own clit, and your gynecologist has never mentioned anything to you before, you might want to bring it up to them during your next appointment.
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We listened to their hilarious, heartbreaking and powerful stories of love, loss, sex, performances, and fun within legendary spaces like Limelight, Danceteria, Tunnel, Pyramid Club, MEAT, and the Clit Club.
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Kira fiddles with a pink candy vulva that she bought from the theater at the end of the film and squeezes a cigarette through the small hole under the clit.
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Kenan and Cooler enlisted The Smell regulars, like noise rockers No Age and relative newcomers Clit Kat, to perform in the video, and everything was shot in a matter of hours.
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At that point, I barely understood my clit, much less my cervix and vaginal canal, so it would be a long time before I ever heard a name for this place.
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So, if you have a clit that's been enlarged through testosterone therapy, you can place the toy on top and use your hand to jack off like you're holding a penis.
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As one of the women in the video points out, people who have vaginas tend to need constant, rhythmic motion on the clit and/or in the vagina to build an orgasm.
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The vertical clit hood (VCH) piercing is the most common kind, for example, but there are people who can't get it done either because the skin above the hood is too tight.
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This is because your clit is mostly internal: It's actually about nine to 11 centimeters in length and extends down the connective tissues of the vulva, with an external hood and glans.
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What you may not be familiar with is how that buzz-buzz could make you come if you place the back end (brush side facing out) of the Clarisonic against your clit.
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But going down on women was seen as more significant – and, hint hint, may have meant that the guys weren't getting as much practice or learning how to actually find the clit.
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Hoping to make it to the book launch of Duets: Kia LaBeija & Julie Tolentino in Conversation followed by Clit Club at Performance Space, the Dyke March, wine teeth, perhaps a rainbow outfit?
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Even though I'm the person dishing out the degradation, it still gives me pause when I'm calling a client a tiny-dicked sissy, or calling a penis a clit as an insult.
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"Then a slide showed up that put it all together, and we found out that it's called the Clit Club," also the name of the legendary lesbian bar Tolentino founded in the 90s.
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Kavanaugh was also a member of an all-male Yale "secret society" for seniors called Truth and Courage, which was referred to by some students as "Tit and Clit" reports the Yale Daily News.
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But nearly 100 people tested out a prototype of Pom and many also flipped the toy around and let it stimulate their whole vulva, while still putting the ridge near their clit, Lieberman says.
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I buzzed at my leisure, experimenting with different pulse settings until I had to hide in the diaper aisle to rejigger the vibrator (under my pants) because it had slipped away from my clit.
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LELO Sona 2 CruiseFrom: LELOAccording to the brand, LELO's bestselling clit stimulator (a new-and-improved take on the original Sona Cruise) has seen an impressive 191% increase in sales within the past month.
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Use A Sex Toy There are several hands-free vibrators on the market, such as Dame's Eva II, which stays in place on your clit thanks to two "arms" that go under your labia.
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Kia LaBeija and Julie Tolentino in conversation with Vivian Crockett at Performance Space for their Visual AIDS book release (part of the Duets series) and the Clit Club party that follows is on my calendar.
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The sexual wellness brand also offers beautiful gold and silver bondage accessories including a harness, nipple and clit clamps, a cock ring bracelet, and handcuff bangles, plus a non-vibrating massage ring featuring two decorative spheres.
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I rubbed my clit and came, and then cleaned up properly (washed toys with warm water and antibacterial soap, and put sheets that may have been anointed with cannabis and butt gunk into the dirty laundry).
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You've been throwing club events for the past ten years in Los Angeles, San Francisco, Oakland, and New York—Club Clit, Club Fist, an annual John Waters party—how does that tie into your work now?
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Created by Sydney-based artist and playwright Alli Sebastian Wolf, this glittery clit has already garnered international attention—Amanda Palmer recently invited its creator onstage at the Sydney Opera House to parade her sculpture for the crowd.
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"No straps to mess with, fits everyone, direct skin-to-skin contact when it comes to insertion (so it's great when it comes to clit rubbing/tribbing), and it can be used vaginally or anally," says McCain.
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As long as it's a safe temperature, the difference in temperature can make sensations you're used to during sex (like someone rubbing the toy over your clit, or putting it inside your vagina or anus) feel different.
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The pain wasn't enough to make me turn it off, but it was enough to make me question who the hell tested this product before it hit the market and whether their clit was made of steel.
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It's much easier to describe how to touch my clit or my labia to someone who I have also built up the trust with to say how much pain I want them to inflict on my thighs!
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A few key, humiliating words send him deep into his fetish: "She compares my cock to an engorged clit, calls it worthless, a waste of skin, a dinky dick," all while giving him a handjob, he says.
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Harrison suggests asking if your partner enjoys their balls or perineum being touched, or moving the blowjob to the edge of the bed so you can also use your hands on yourself by rubbing your clit or penis.
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To celebrate the clit and nod to the rocky history of our men's relationship with it, we asked musician and performance artist Dorian Electra to guide us through an ode to the most fun part of the female body.
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Even if the "rule of thumb" holds up under more testing, there's an easy way to replicate the clitoral contact that people with shorter CUMDs experience: rub your clit with your fingers during sex, or grab a sex toy.
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Anyway, forget about all that because over Easter weekend I opted for for an introductory session to Orgasmic Meditation: a US import that aims to help people achieve intimacy and connect with each other through a specific amount of clit touching.
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Each of them nervous that there is some secret out there to pussy eating that the other men aren't telling, each of them worried that their girlfriends and wives or Tinder dates will leave them for someone who sucks clit better.
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Babeland's Dahlia is a perfect example, because it has both a long enough shaft and a slight curve to be a G-spot toy and a rosebud shape at the tip that will hug your clit when you use it externally.
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" By today's best evidence, derived from meticulous cadaveric dissection, it is an organ that extends deep into the body on multiple planes, and constitutes far more than the small glans and hood that most of us think of as "the clit.
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Making out turned into dry humping, which turned into cuddling, which turned into intertwined legs that resulted in vulva-to-vulva contact that stimulated my already engorged clit, and I came my face off and felt like a total badass.
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It's not that people with clitoral adhesions aren't cleanly, but because of the way their clitoral anatomy is built, they can be more prone to having debris or buildup (which can cause adhesions) in and around their clit, Dr. Britton says.
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When you and your partner feel aroused enough for penetration, put on the condom and apply a generous amount of lube to the outside of the condom, around the clit, and inside the vagina—even if the vagina is wet already.
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If you're unsure if you want a toy that's meant for your clit or one that's supposed to reach your G-spot, then the Ooh Her Name Is Rio set could be a tie-breaker (or help you realize that you like both).
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The thong is ripped from my body and before I fully know what's going on, I feel the slight sting of scotch against my clit immediately followed by the shocking warmth of a kiss there, a kiss delivered to my very core.
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Perfect for: The fuccboiUnbound makes stealthy jewelry that doubles as sex accessories (sex-essories?)—including a necklace that you can use to store lube, a bracelet that doubles as a cock ring, and body jewelry that acts as a nipple and clit clamp.
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I was one of the lucky few U.S. students to receive education that extended beyond slut-shaming and exhortations to abstinence, and still I was on my own when it came to getting to know my clit and its 8,000 sensory nerve endings.
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If you want to add your hands back in, try this: While your face is shoved between your partner's thighs, go back to DJ-ing their clit with one hand, and use your tongue to part their inner labia to prepare for penetration.
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From the "Renate Alumni" to the notorious all-male Yale secret society Truth and Courage (known on campus as "Tit and Clit"), of which Kavanaugh was reportedly a member, what is most remarkable about his adolescence and early adulthood is how unremarkable it is.
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But it's meant to be fun, too, as demonstrated by the fact that its official launch on Tuesday at The Bearded Tit in Redfern will see the audience (Wolf dubs them "The Clitorati") don clit-shaped crowns and iron-on clitoris patches to celebrate.
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In addition to vibration, the toy had a small nub on the underside that could move back and forth (or side to side or up and down or in circles), mimicking the sensation created by, say, a finger or tongue gently stroking the clit.
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If I can find a way to position my feet so that I won't accidentally kick my legs down and whack my partner in the face, I feel a lot more comfortable and can use my free hands to grab their chest or rub my clit.
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Given that standard sex education barely manages to include the clit, and the "existence" of the area within the urethral sponge referred to as the G-spot is an ongoing debate, it's no surprise that there has been very little coverage of the anterior and posterior fornices.
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Ask if your partner likes being fingered while someone goes down on them, if they like their clit sucked or blown on, if they like it when someone lightly nibbles their labia, if they like it slow or fast, and any other questions you can think to ask.
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The vibrations aren't super strong, either, so it's very kind on the clit (but may not be enough for people who crave a more vigorous buzz.) Grade: B+ Ass of an Angel (Silicone Butt Plug, $39.99) The texture is super smooth, and I love the minimalist striped design.
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If you do a search on Instagram now with #cliteracy, you will find a large number of works there using my lexicon, especially the word "cliteracy" but also "solidgoldclit" or clit puns like "cliterati"—projects building on the force of these words but not crediting their source whatsoever.
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I asked a LELO spokesperson if a gold vibrator actually feels better, and he basically told me that although physically, there's nothing special about the way gold stimulates your clit, because pleasure is psychological, it would feel better to someone who's turned on by the idea of luxury.
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And I think it also leads to women not reaching their sexual potentials and not having the most pleasurable, positive a sex life we possibly can because we feel like we can't be like, no that thing you're doing with your hand actually feels like shit, my clit is over here.
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Ignoring the countless advice columns about how you should probably kick your guy to the curb if he refuses to put your clit in his mouth, if writer Allison Stevenson could pen an entire essay about her reluctance to give blowjobs, then she must have a counterpart in oral aversion, willing to proudly divulge his nuanced reasoning.
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"I was going down on her for a while, hard to say exactly how long because I was tripping...and suddenly she started bugging that I would suck her clit into my mouth and not let it out," one of them, who wishes remain anonymous because drug use would put them at risk of losing their job, tells me.
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Popular signs infuriatingly lifted from moments in black culture, including "It's Clit," a pun combining the popular slang "lit" with the reference to female anatomy, and several variations of "We Shall Overcomb," which conflated the gospel hymn and anthem of the civil rights movement with a garish cartoon of Donald Trump's saffron-colored cloud of hair.
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It features this wonderful passage about imagining a better world where a bachelor party comes in for a workshop, with each of the men "nervous that there is some secret out there to pussy eating that the other men aren't telling, each of them worried that their girlfriends and wives or Tinder dates will leave them for someone who sucks clit better."
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Most of the time, sex was great, because repeatedly rubbing someone's clitoris with a finger or a tongue will get that person to climax most of the time — but sometimes she went hard when I wanted her to go soft, or she spent too much time focused on one part of my body, or she tried to use a strap-on without also stimulating my clit.
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But if you're having sex with a partner, you can also make a blended orgasm happen by having them rub your clitoris with a finger while they penetrate you with a sex toy or penis, having them finger you while they lick your clit, or using a hands-free vibrator (like Dame Products' Eva 2, which sits inside the lips of your vulva) while they penetrate you, among other things.
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" Their song "Rules and Regulations," the first off their upcoming Shitty Punk Album, is a giant middle finger to the world that catpures their ethos in a nutshell: "Rules and regulations got me feeling like / Fuck it though!" goes the hook, over screaming synths and bass, and the verses feature a variety of invitations to, in the words of guest rapper Gangsta Boo, "get on they knees and lick my clit.
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Dating apps provide countless suitors; porn sites provide a seemingly infinite array of categories to jerk off to, including, as Witt lists, "'big clit,' 'chubby,' 'puffy nipples,' 'farting,' 'hairy pussy,' 'aged,' '9 months pregnant,' 'short hair,' 'small tits,' 'muscled girl,' 'fat mature,' and 'ugly'"; discussions of polyamory and alternative family arrangements throw into question our assumptions about the sorts of people that can be parents, cohabitants, and lovers.
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This aspect of Stonewall serves as a signpost for me and many other queer folks of my generation (people who came of age in the '90s) as we made space within the mainstream gay movement for diverse sites of action and community such as the Audre Lorde Project, the Clit Club, the Lesbian Herstory Archives, as well as groups like South Asian Lesbian and Gay Association (SALGA) and Gay Asian and Pacific Islander Men of New York (GAPIMNY).
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