"We've always ended up just realizing we really love each other, and that's really the only way not to get divorced is to not get divorced," he says.
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" - Becky, 28 "I thought he'd get divorced soon.
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This is the suit I'm going to get divorced in.
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Talk about how long does it take to get divorced?
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You have to either get divorced or work through it.
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Do you know how hard it is to get divorced?
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Usually, marriages have two outcomes: stay together or get divorced.
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"When you get divorced, you're still in a relationship," Hudson said.
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Or maybe they just want to get married to get divorced.
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Years later you get divorced but neglect to update your will.
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Read MoreNow may be a really great time to get ... divorced?
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In the end, Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie did get divorced.
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Travel: Other couples get divorced; my wife and I move around.
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How deciding to get divorced was the key to staying married.
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A lot of couples get divorced because of fighting over money.
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"It's tough enough with married couples who get divorced," Mehler said.
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Who's been trying to get divorced for longer than she's been married?
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In order to get divorced, people have to hate each other. Right?
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Steve cheats on Genevieve, they get divorced, and he splits in two.
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If you get divorced and remarried, don&apost just update your will.
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She'd rather go through with it and get divorced than call it off.
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One Ohio State University study found that we're more likely to get divorced.
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" 'Well,' he said, 'we never wanted to get divorced at the same time.'"
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She contends that those who favor the traditional gold ring often get divorced.
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And get divorced, according to a study from the University of Missouri-Columbia.
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Tini Owens, 68, is fighting get divorced from her husband, High Owens, 60.
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Or people often get divorced and meet someone else that makes them happier.
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If you get divorced during that time, the green card can be revoked.
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For a long time that was a good reason not to get divorced.
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Get divorced so Maria can qualify for Medicaid as a single, unemployed mother.
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Even if we get married we think, Oh, we can still get divorced.
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If they can buy an espresso maker online, they can get divorced online.
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Perhaps this explains why people in arranged marriages tend to get divorced less frequently.
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And just as a side note: Republicans don't get divorced and remarried three times.
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I feel like nowadays, people have a row and they want to get divorced.
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"It was a challenge for me when I decided to get divorced," Kardashian said.
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If you wait until you're 23 to commit, you're less likely to get divorced.
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I've got to wait for a bunch of people to get divorced I guess.
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"It was a challenge for me when I decided to get divorced," Kardashian writes.
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Oh, and she's also told her husband about their affair and will get divorced.
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"It was a challenge for me when I decided to get divorced," she shares.
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The reality that Matt Barnett and Amber Barnett are going to get divorced someday.
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It's like deciding to get divorced is what keeps you from getting divorced. Exactly.
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Often couples seek professional help because they want reassurance that they should get divorced.
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Then we had to get divorced in third grade and remarried in forth grade.
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The new law allowed same-sex couples to get married, get divorced, and adopt children.
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Kevin has a little freak out about if his parents are going to get divorced.
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I joke that we can never get divorced, because who would do this for me?
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I'd even experienced the full relationship cycle— fall in love, get married, and get divorced.
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They mate for one year, get divorced, and find a new mate the next year.
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The closer that partners are in age, the less likely they are to get divorced.
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If Kim would get divorced for attention, who's to say she wouldn't leave her baker?
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Yeah, Andy said he always did married couples in diptychs because they always get divorced.
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Hairy gives his wife an ultimatum: either they abandon their adopted son or get divorced.
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"There are people who will die, get divorced, have children with cancer," Mr. Butterfield said.
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Why would someone want to sign a legal document sealing their fate to get divorced?
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According to the American Psychological Association, around 40-50 percent of married US couples get divorced.
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I point out that if they get divorced, then everything will be considered community property anyway.
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Probably 10 to 15 years later, they'd get divorced, and she'd be onto the next project.
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In Dagestan, if you want to marry another woman, you don't really need to get divorced.
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In Wisconsin, there is a 120-day waiting period to get divorced, according to Wisconsin courts.
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She says she's too scared to get divorced, because she has never been on her own.
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If your parents taught you to verbalize your feelings, you are less likely to get divorced.
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When the Whalers left, Victor says, he felt like a kid watching his parents get divorced.
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Some provinces are already tightening access to abortion or making it more difficult to get divorced.
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" Said Theresa: "Every marriage goes through phases which either could improve the relationship or people get divorced.
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On the flipside, if you get divorced at any time, you'll file as single in the spring.
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"Lots of women I work with have given up their careers [and then get divorced]," Gadoua says.
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Samantha's (Gaby Hoffmann) parents get divorced, leaving her with emotional issues that will haunt her for years.
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The two were going to get divorced, filing papers in 2013, but the proceedings were never finalized.
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And if they get divorced, there are so many more things to deal with and it's hard.
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"I asked why they would get divorced if only to get back together," said Josephine, now 14.
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Because one of the problems with your business is you only get divorced once, maybe a couple.
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I think there are people that go into marriage thinking: 'If it doesn't work, I'll get divorced.
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And those of us who still opt to get married are also more likely to get divorced.
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When couples get divorced, children are not the only ones who can get caught in custody disputes.
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"Many have also seen what happens when people who haven't maintained those networks get divorced," Coontz adds.
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When you get divorced, you're supposed to be celebrating and start a new chapter, but it's really heartbreaking.
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Jada Pinkett Smith got real about marriage on Instagram after reflecting on watching people around her get divorced.
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Voit's best advice: Do not get divorced unless the QDRO is completed and ready to be signed simultaneously.
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Let's get married and we'll have to see each other again even if it's just to get divorced.
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Some couples still got married, and are finding when they get divorced they have to end both unions.
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"He added he didn't think they'd get one anytime soon because "we're probably going to get divorced eventually.
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It doesn't seem fair that couples who spend more time in school are less likely to get divorced.
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She said he didn't want to get divorced because he would have to surrender half of his pension.
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Even so, I had to borrow money from my mother to pay for the lawyer to get divorced.
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Yes. My guess is they probably already knew things weren't going well and had decided to get divorced.
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"I hugged her and she said 'Kevin, we are not going to get divorced over this,'" he recalled.
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Undisclosed debt is an example of financial infidelity, one of the biggest money-related reasons people get divorced.
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"Say you get divorced, get into a fight and that person takes you off the account," he said.
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"It is my firm belief that people get divorced because their expectations were not met," Ms. Myres said.
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Today, Entertainment Weekly reported that, during the upcoming final season of The Mindy Project, Mindy Lahiri will get divorced.
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She was just about to give her big coming-out speech, and I was just about to get divorced.
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Maybe he did that only to get divorced, but he changed the discourse and the history of England forever.
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Geena Davis does not want to get divorced — because she says she was never married in the first place.
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People will usually do the most boring thing, which is to stay married or get divorced, given enough time.
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In fact, money has often been cited as a large contributing factor to why couples decided to get divorced.
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I can only practice in California, but you don't need a lawyer to get divorced on It's Over Easy.
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Here's an awkward question for your spouse: Would you be willing to get divorced to save a few dollars?
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That's like saying a couple won't get divorced because they just bought a big expensive house in a bad economy.
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THAT the children of divorced parents are more likely, when they grow up, to get divorced themselves is well known.
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HAWAII: You can get divorced in Hawaii even if you were married in a different state — or a different country.
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RHODE ISLAND: Either spouse has to have lived in Rhode Island for at least one year to get divorced here.
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You cannot get divorced first and think about arrangements for the future (children, family home, etc) either separately or afterwards.
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Loreen (Becky Ann Baker) is trying to decide whether or not she wants to actually get divorced from Hannah's dad.
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A push to digitalize official services makes it easy for Danes to view public records and even get divorced online.
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"He told me I got like two goats and a donkey, so we better not get divorced," she said, jokingly.
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Black women between the ages of 50 and 59 have been identified as the group most likely to get divorced.
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" Handler joked that in order for someone to be interested in her, she'd need to "wait for someone to get divorced.
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"I did get divorced in 2015," Lambert pointedly acknowledged before singing the song with co-writers Liz Rose and Natalie Hemby.
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Guest Kat signed up for the show to fix her "YOGDO" thigh tattoo ("YOGDO," naturally, means "you only get divorced once").
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In other words, it was only when people's biological parents got divorced that they were more likely to get divorced themselves.
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I do think that sometimes people get divorced and end up happier because of it, and that's probably not very rare.
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"If I ever get divorced, I'm still going to be like, 'Wow, I loved being married to that man,'" Bell said.
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When it's someone one more degree of separation out (the friend of a friend), you're 33% more likely to get divorced.
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We&aposve figured out which states are the worst to get divorced in for cheaters, so keep scrolling to learn more.
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Couples similar in age are actually much less likely to get divorced and enjoy a more egalitarian outlook on spousal roles.
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More of an unofficial 'religious marriage', but it was considered rude to get divorced, and it would have shamed his 'wife'.
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If Harry and Meghan were to get divorced, it's most likely they would work out a financial settlement quickly and quietly.
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This means accepting that many Catholics live with their partners before marrying, use artificial contraception, form same-sex relationships and get divorced.
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"I turn Offset on / I told him the other day / 'We should get divorced,'" she rapped, leaving no subtlety about her meaning.
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In court documents obtained by PEOPLE, Davis, 62, responded that she and Jarrahy cannot get divorced since they were not legally married.
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But what most don't know is that celebrities (and commoners) aren't the only ones who get divorced—sometimes, actual stars do, too.
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Basically, marriage is not forever; the only three ways to get out are you die, your spouse dies, or you get divorced.
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If you can't explain what your partner cares about and why, it's time to get divorced in the great state of Delaware.
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It is unclear why otherwise passive people have decided to get divorced since they seem to like each other and are kind.
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Sometimes the law has to change for you to be able to get divorced or move out of a contract, you know?
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And that includes how she initially dropped out of college to get married in 1968, only to get divorced 10 years later.
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I see couples that have been married 10, 15, 20 years who get divorced and seem to be completely fine with it.
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Gottman was able to develop a model predicting the likelihood of whether a couple would get divorced with more than 94 percent accuracy.
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Arizona has become the first state in the US to pass a law mandating what happens to frozen embryos after couples get divorced.
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Some child brides — like Sonali Khatun, who fought to get divorced at 14 — have happier endings, but they are still in the minority.
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A lot of people in America get divorced, so it's no surprise that there are a lot of "complex families" in this country.
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I think — I'm not an expert — but I think when people get divorced and things are fresh and new, it's always more difficult.
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You've got to sort of take a breather, go find yourself solo again and get married, get divorced, have babies, whatever you're doing.
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"Ultimately, we decided not to get divorced," said Gina, who shares daughter Sienna, 5, and sons Nicholas, 7, and Luca, 4, with Matt.
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"I did not want to get divorced again, did not want to go through this thing with a broken family with kids," he says.
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When Teen Mom 2's Kailyn Lowry and Javi Marroquin decided to get divorced, they agreed to evenly split custody of their son Lincoln.
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He also makes the counterintuitive argument that if you live with your partner before marriage, it's more likely that you'll one day get divorced.
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I married once, only to get divorced a few years later, and being in my mid 30s with tattoos and short hair didn't help either.
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The problem is that people get married, get divorced, have children and undergo other life changes that might warrant a second look at their heirs.
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She thinks about her peers who married young because they got pregnant and felt that they had no choice -- only to get divorced young, too.
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According to research out of Brown University, you're 75% more likely to get divorced if a friend or close relative has already done the deed.
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"I always say no one gets married to hopefully get divorced," she says of deciding to end her nearly nine-year marriage to Channing Tatum.
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According to recent research co-authored by Johanna Rickne, a professor at Stockholm University, women who received big promotions were more likely to get divorced.
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Thus, God cannot lift what is by definition "unliftable," just as He cannot "create a square circle" or get divorced (since He is not married).
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"It's one of those weird ages for your parents to get divorced," the actor, 23, said on the Allegedly with Theo Von & Matthew Cole Weiss podcast.
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"It's a big deal to get divorced, and you want to make sure you have people around you that are going to help you process that."
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"There's songs on the record from the moment I realized I was gonna get divorced to the moment I fell in love with Patrick," she commented.
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Tini Owens, 68, is fighting to get divorced from her husband, High Owens, citing unreasonable behavior and claiming their marriage has been broken for some time.
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"There's songs on the record from the moment I realized I was gonna get divorced to the moment I fell in love with Patrick," she says.
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" "He mentioned divorce, kind of as a threat, as in 'If you're so unhappy, why don't we just get divorced then?' intending me to go 'No!
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Others are more transparent about the facts, like TLC's Married At First Sight, which stresses that the couples who split will also have to get divorced.
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But apparently, his health insurance plan is better than hers, so they&aposre putting the brakes on their plans to get divorced for the time being.
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As companies look to the blockchain to trade stocks, create open market spaces, and even to get divorced, there's another industry looking at utilizing blockchain technology: healthcare.
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NEW YORK (Reuters) - When people over the age of 50 get divorced, retirement accounts become a key asset, even more so sometimes than the house or alimony.
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The causal connection is unclear: does getting divorced make people likelier to harbour angry racial resentments, or do those who have such feelings tend to get divorced?
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But, as I've noted, it's easier to get divorced than rid yourself of a VC investor, who should be your steadfast, long-term partner on this journey.
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"I could have two friends who are about to get divorced, but they would post a picture on Facebook where they are having a picnic happily," he said.
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Child brides typically cannot get divorced because they are underage, many women's shelters will not take anyone under 18 and landlords will not rent to minors, she said.
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When we got divorced, I also had to get divorced from the dog, which was honestly in many ways harder than the actual dissolution of the marriage itself.
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The pair has spent several holidays together, including Christmas and Valentine's Day "I don't think they will ever get divorced," a source close to the couple tells PEOPLE.
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You can read the story of Sonali Khatun, a child bride who fought to get divorced at 14 and became an advocate for girls in her community, here.
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"I didn't want to get divorced, I didn't want to be a divorced person, I really didn't want to be a split family with my children," he said.
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And considering money problems are the most common reason people get divorced, it ends up being the root of way more relationship fights than we care to admit.
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Campaigners say children married young are more likely to leave school, get divorced, experience domestic abuse and mental health problems and live in poverty than those who marry later.
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Though she's been separated from Chris Martin for the better part of two years, Gwyneth Paltrow has told Glamour that the former couple have yet to actually get divorced.
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Many winners struggle with depression, get divorced and deal with relentless requests from friends and family who want a piece of the prize, CNBC Make It has previously reported.
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They manage your local Walmart, study law, get divorced, attend cosplay conventions, and do all sorts of things you rarely see them do in mainstream American television and film.
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In 1995, Diana sat down for a tell-all solo interview and talked about Prince Charles&apos affair with Camilla, after which the Queen urged them to get divorced.
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I took out a personal loan to cover the remaining debt on the title loan so that I could speed up the process and get divorced as quickly as possible.
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My parents have been married for 55 years, my husband's parents were married for 55 years, and you're much less likely to get divorced if your parents are still together.
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Read more: Billionaire couple Jeff and MacKenzie Bezos live in one of the best states in the US to get divorced if your spouse is loaded — here are the rest
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Signing a prenup means you're destined to get divorced Worried that a prenuptial agreement will pit you and your future spouse against each other or be an omen for divorce?
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"Secular activists, most of whom mean well, think they are helping Muslim women by advocating abolishment, but in taking this action, women would find it harder to get divorced," Gohir said.
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A property price rally has prompted a home buying frenzy in parts of China, in some cases prompting couples to get divorced to circumvent buying restrictions and invest in multiple homes.
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If you're planning to get divorced or are even just thinking about it, you could already be running out of time to get that done before new tax rules take effect.
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It's an app and ... I always say it's very difficult to get divorced on your phone on the subway, but you can sign up, you can certainly go through the content.
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The next morning, with tears in my eyes, I told Nisim we were going to have to get divorced because I could not live with him for the next four years.
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As it turns out, one small study, published 2013 in the journal Couple and Family Psychology, found that substance abuse was a common "final straw" in the decision to get divorced.
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He was fond of saying things like "the two most expensive things a Rockefeller can do are run for public office and get divorced; Nelson did both" — referring to his brother.
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The lack of legal recognition for Ivasiy and Pozdnyakov's marriage in Ukraine posed another potential problem, though one which the couple hope will never occur: "We can't get divorced," said Ivasiy.
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In fact, there are plenty of actually amazing things that happen when you get divorced — many of which are explored by Sarah Jessica Parker's character, Frances Dufresne, in HBO's hit show Divorce.
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Ultimately, some of my financial decisions were uneducated and poorly made, and some of them I was forced to make to get divorced and into a healthier and safer environment more quickly.
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If you underestimate your life span or medical costs, get divorced, or give a significant amount of money to your children or grandchildren, you might find retirement is more expensive than expected.
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I've gotten so much feedback from other woman who are actually happy in their marriage, but they say, 'If I was going to get divorced, I would do it Cynthia Bailey style.
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Rosario's husband José Valdivia did not want to get divorced and stalked her, Rosario told the outlet, even sending her photos of alcohol and a gun and saying he had suicidal thoughts.
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My parents did get divorced while they were living in that house, and my father did become my mother's landlord, and she did begin taking in oddball boarders to make ends meet.
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"You hear a lot of people saying, 'Oh, celebrities get divorced around the 10-year mark because if they don't, they'll be on the hook for spousal support to each other,' " he said.
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"You hear a lot of people saying, 'Oh, celebrities get divorced around the 10-year mark because if they don't, they'll be on the hook for spousal support to each other,' " he says.
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But I think what's happened over the course of 10 years is when people watch us and they've seen us get married, get divorced, have babies, the kids are growing up on camera.
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"The classic worst case is you get divorced, your [ex-]wife is named as beneficiary and you never change the form," said Ed Slott, a certified public accountant in Rockville Centre, New York.
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Founder Ricky Knox, 41, told Reuters the novel approach was designed to help build Tandem's customer base in a competitive market where clients are seen more likely to get divorced than switch lenders.
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According to Hollywood divorce attorney Laura Wasser, who has represented high-profile clients like Angeline Jolie, Jennifer Garner, and Kim Kardashian, the number one reason celebrities get divorced is that they've simply grown apart.
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In a upcoming episode of The Daily Beast's podcast The Last Laugh, the Borat star and writer said that Anderson, 51, once told him that the controversial film caused the couple to get divorced.
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Having suffered through an arranged marriage, she said, she was forced to pay off her husband, with a sum of approximately $18,000, to get divorced; a philanthropist helped her come up with the money.
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" Mr. Trump shared his secrets to winning in business and life: "Get even" and "Always have a prenuptial agreement," though he quickly added, "I won't say it here, because you people don't get divorced.
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If you and your spouse can&apost agree on how to divide all or part of your assets when you get divorced, there are two ways they could be divided, depending where you live.
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Several European nations require transgender people to undergo medical procedures such as surgery and sterilization, be diagnosed with a mental disorder, and get divorced if married to have their desired gender legally recognized by government.
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The former NFL player "is the ultimate family man and is not the type to get married just to get divorced," the source remarked, adding that "they want to do what's best for their kids."
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My stepfather and my mom, my stepmother, I sort of won the lottery in the sense of, if you have to have your parents get divorced, when I was 2, they both found great partners.
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He says he's willing to help her get to the bottom of the IG harassment ... IF she agrees to the terms they struck in their divorce deal ... and IF she finally agrees to get divorced.
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Think of what happens when a couple get divorced because of one stated cause — say, infidelity — when in reality there's an entire unseen universe of intertwined causes, forces and events that contributed to that outcome.
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"Obviously, that puts me in a worse situation because that's money now if something happens to my husband — he dies or we get divorced — I don't know what's going to happen to that," Snyder said.
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A study published in 2015 by two economists at Emory University found that among couples of the same income, education and race, those who had married on a higher budget were more likely to get divorced.
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"We've played Croatia four times in four years, we've often said we're like a married couple - we're trying to get divorced, but we always meet up again," the Iceland coach said at a recent media conference.
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Women who begin their marriage either earning less than their husbands or not working at all are significantly more likely to get divorced if their career suddenly surges, according to a new study by Swedish researchers.
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How come my parents couldn't figure out a way to get divorced and overcome whatever ... My mother's answer for that is, well, they have a lot of money and we didn't and that's really what it is.
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"If you co-sign on a student loan to help your spouse get a lower interest rate, you are legally responsible for that debt even if you later get divorced," says Lux from The Student Loan Sherpa.
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"It takes a judge to get married, takes a judge to get divorced / Well the last couple years, spent a lotta time in court / Got my name changed back," she sings as a judge presides over the courtroom.
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Running a randomised controlled trial would involve some tricky ethics and practicalities—we would rightly balk at the idea of Mr Levitt demanding that half of his sample group go get divorced to see whether they regret it.
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Life insurance beneficiaries are finalIf you get divorced, something very common in the United States today, you probably don&apost want your ex-wife or ex-husband to get your life insurance payout if something happens to you.
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They think they'll be happy when they get married, when they get divorced, when they get that job, when the weekend comes, when they get rich, and so on — but people who are not happy now are using excuses.
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If your marriage is already at the point where you've tried to repair problems through these avenues, or you simply don't have an interest in trying to repair them, it could mean it's time to get divorced, Wright said.
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Overpayment debts can arise for a number of reasons — a veteran who gets benefits for her spouse might get divorced and forget to tell the VA, or a veteran receiving G.I. Bill funds might drop out of school without notice.
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"Rick and Morty" is often horrifyingly violent, and its family dynamics are a defiantly unpleasant reversal of the classic will-they-or-won't-they romantic tension: Instead, we root for characters to get divorced for their sakes and for their children.
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Read more:15 alarming facts about divorce in the US that will shock youMy divorce cost me $17,695 — these were the most surprising expenses I facedThe 9 worst states to get divorced in for cheaters13 of the most scandalous divorces in US history
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That means Europe's incumbent governments have a certain ugly incentive to make sure Brexit goes poorly for the UK. Married couples who get divorced would typically be better off handling it amicably and staying on good terms, but they often don't pull it off.
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"Prior studies have provided evidence for this hypothesis, indicating that women who had used hormonal contraceptives when they first met their partner and then ceased to take them experience lower levels of sexual and relationship satisfaction and are more likely to get divorced," she tells me.
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If a husband decides he acted hastily, the only way for the marriage to be reinstated is through nikah halala, another Sharia law practice under which the woman has to marry another man, consummate the marriage with the second husband, get divorced, and then go back to her former husband.
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His inability to know "Well, if I want to turn the corner and leave the drug business, I can't do it seamlessly — I have to downgrade, get divorced and do certain things, etc." is an example of how he can't figure out how to get out of his own way. Right.
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When Ms. Cornwell saw that premiums for 250 would rise by hundreds of dollars a month — to three times as much as the couple paid in 26 — they looked hard at the options: Should they get divorced and file taxes separately so Mr. Donart's lower income would qualify him for cheaper insurance?
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The role of a bhopa is that any person in the village — if a goat is sick, a cow isn't giving milk, a child is sick, there's any problem in the family, even say if the husband and wife are having problems and want to get divorced, really anything — they go and ask the bhopa.
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Read more:8 things I wish I knew before I got divorcedI got a divorce but am still with my ex husband — here's how we made it workThe average cost of getting divorced is $15,000 in the US — but here's why it can be much higherThe 12 biggest money-related reasons people get divorced
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And I'm not saying, "Oh, laissez faire, isn't it casual, let's get divorced and move on," and whatever, but let's realize that if it's not working out, isn't it better for kids to see two happy parents alone or in relationships with new people than it is to see miserable parents that hate each other?
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Paternity leave benefits babies, of course, but it also benefits relationships and spouses: Men who take paternity leave are less likely to get divorced, and a Swedish study found that when fathers were offered up to 30 days of flexible leave while their partners were on maternity leave, their spouses are less likely to be on anti-anxiety medication in the postpartum period.
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"We know that for adults that don't treat their ADHD, they are more likely to get divorced than separated, they're less likely to graduate college, they're more likely to smoke cigarettes and quit-rates are about half, they're more likely to use substances if they don't get their ADHD diagnosed, and they're more likely to have motor vehicle accidents," Adler said.
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In the second ending, characters' lives hit the conventional beats of fanfic—coffee shop dates, having children with ridiculous names—but also succumb to the genre's popularly conceived excesses: the most vile characters proclaim redemption (remember that clown?), partners cheat on each other and get divorced, and the would-be utopia is mired in exactly the social and political concerns that were supposedly left behind.
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While children of divorce are still more likely to get divorced than children who grew up in happy families, a recent report by Pew Social Trends, based on data from the National Survey of Families and Households, found that children who grew up in "high-conflict" households whose parents still stayed together were more likely to divorce than children of high-conflict parents who split up.
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We look at marriage differently — we're not just doing it later or not at all, but because we see it as an option, we're being more selective about who we marry, as noted by both researchers and internet anthropologists: "The number of prenups that couples are signing are on the rise because our generation saw our parents get divorced," posits Aditi Shekar, a relationship finance expert and the founder of a finance app for couples called Zeta.
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